Monday, October 1, 2012
Saying "thank you"
I've never, so far up to now, had myself sufficiently organized to start to build a habit of thank you notes with Liam. If I'm being honest, my own track record for written thank you notes, which 7-8 years ago was pretty reliable and natural, has fallen by the wayside more than I would like. Same with my ability to remember most birthdays and other memorable days with sufficient clarity or advance warning to do much about it. Another change.
A digression: both these things fell away when Will first started getting really sick. There were all these appointments and treatment so get through, and trying to understand it all so I could be a helpful and responsible advocate took so much bandwidth, really it took all I had left after work. And for pity's sake that was just me. I wasn't sick, or facing painful and unpleasant treatments, or confronted so baldly with the uncertainty of my life span and future. I shudder whenever I think about what it must have taken from Will, and remain amazed at how resilient he was.
So Liam is working on thank you notes these days. I outline the letters and he colors them in. This note is for his lovely school teacher who gifted him a piece of rose quartz. On the inside he tends to draw a picture. These days trees are popular.
On the back he writes his name and I usually write a short note. We've made 3 or 4 so far and I hope to continue.